Relationship Tool: I Am All That

Relationship Tool: I Am All That

1. Imagine that your attractiveness is boundless, your eyes are magnets, your heart is an open pool of gold that every man wants to dive into, and your body (no matter what you think) is a lush place that every man longs for, feels awestruck just thinking about getting close to, and yet feels safe within. Really imagine that's what he sees, thinks and feels.

“They'll want to know what it is that makes you feel so confident, and they'll want to get in on your I'm all that!”

2. When any doubts, fears, and negative thoughts come up, simply tell them to step aside.

3. Paint this picture of boundless attractiveness for yourself in your imagination right now, this moment, and keep it going all day and night, no matter what happens.

4. Once this imaginary picture is in your mind, and the good feelings it brings are in your heart and body, you'll notice something amazing happening. When you're in the market, at the drugstore, walking down the street, waiting in line at the coffee house - you will begin to experience yourself as a magnet for men. Then...

5. Lean back. Actually tilt your body backwards - to keep your energy in "receiving" mode while you're imagining every man you meet (especially the one you may be in a relationship with right now) giving energy to you.

We light candles whenever he comes over. We put on our sexiest clothes and buy lacy lingerie.