How can we woman ever trust men not to cheat on us?

How can we women ever trust men not to cheat on us?

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By finding a good guy. Most women are attracted to bad guys for some odd reason and the good ones that will love and care for you till you die get pushed to the side. Also women cheat just as much as men. Communication is always a key in a relationship.

• You have to do what us men do to trust you women will not cheat on us. And do not lie to yourself, women cheat as much is not more then men do. So forget the rah rah poor victim sister junk.
  
  You also have to act in ways that do not give the person pretty good reason to even start thinking they may need to find someone else. That starts with honoring your vows, treating him well, allowing him to treat you well and being appreciative of the fact that he does. IT also means that you realize sex is a normal expectation in marriage and that you have few good reasons to say no very often, as your bodies belong to one another once married. Treat one another as a part of your own body. Not just for sex, but in all. If you do so, you will endear yourself.
  
  Lastly, recognize that what you do, what you say, who you hang out with, your attitudes on things will all send signals and signs to him. Again, make sure you live in a manner that shows him how lucky he got to have you and that you feel the same about him. That does not always work, but the secret is this. So many women who claim to have done these things and still got cheated on. Well, the truth is, they did these things to their own satisfaction instead of being concerned if they did it to his satisfaction. That makes a huge difference. While you can do something and think it is fine, once married, you have to think of how it looks to the mate or what signals it sends to them. Example: Many women will think it fine to only have sex once a month. Problem is, they are not the only person involved and it is not only how the girl sees it that matters. Same with hanging out with friends, going to bars or anything else. Once married, you have to think of what your actions or inactions say to the other person and how it makes them feel.

   

   
• There is no way your going to be able to trust all men. You have to find a man you can trust... someone you want to be with that you can trust. Same goes for a man finding a women.
  By the way: Point of interest, I'm a guy.
  Another point of interest: I'm 17.

  
  

  Me thinking for a second that I know anything about love. What was I thinking?

   

   
• Before you get in a relationship be friends! See how they act first don't just jump into a relationship and makesure they no how you feel about cheaters then if they cheat leave them. Don't let them say I didn't think it would hurt so much to hurt you. Make it clear in the begining how you feel so if the time comes their is no exscuse. Don't be with a cheater. Theirs a social networks site for people who don't cheat idk what its called but I'm sure its easy to find don't let yourself be with a cheater

   

   
• Trust is something that needs to be earned. You don't trust someone off the bat, but you get to know them and you learn to trust them. You just have to live a live a little and learn how to let your guard down. I just got out of a 5 year relationship a few months ago where the last month or two my ex cheated on me. I swore that I was never going to trust a man again but then I met my current boyfriend and he has all my trust. He taught me how to be happy and laugh again and to be frank that's what I needed.

   

   
• IT DEPENDS ON THE MAN YOU CHOSE TO GIVE YOUR LOVE AND YOUR TRUST
  
  BUT YOU MUST KNOW HIM VERY WELL RIGHT? SO JUST ONLY YOU KNOW HIS LIMITS, ALTHOUGH FOR ANY WEAK MAN IS EASY TO CHEAT SINCE THE ARE WHORES EVERYWHERE, IN THEIR NUDE APPEARANCE THEY HAVE, IN THE SHAMELESS WAY THEY HAVE TO TALK OR SMILE WITH YOUR OWM MAN EVEN IN YOUR OWN NOSES, EVEN WHEN I DONT APOLOGIZE ANY SHAMELESS MAN BUT YOU TALK TO HIM ALL WHAT HE HAS WITH YOU AND WHAT HE SHOULD NOT PUT IN DANGER IF NOT HE WILL LOSE THIS AND THIS AND THIS..... AND ALWAYS BUT ALWAYS KEEP AN EYE ON HIM IN A SUBTLE WAY THIS HELP A LOT, GOOD LUCK

   

   
• you can't as long as he has a pen*s. all we can do is try to find the best man to marry. ignore bad boys, go for dorky good guys that we usually don't go for. and then end up with a charmer who charms his way to other girls pants all his life

   
• Not all men cheat and besides women cheat too, so it comes down to having to trust one another to do the right thing and if you don't think you can trust the male you are with, then its time to find one you can trust.
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  It is possible if they marry someone like me.
  
  I have not touched another woman in the 26 years I have been married.
  
  I do have a note from my wife that says I can look; I just can't touch.
  
  ........... and, YES, I do look on occasion. I'm wed - not dead

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  Realize that faith and trust are 2 different things. And, trust in all womankind that she won't participate just because he is with you.

   

  
  

  Trust is the whole point of a monogamous relationship.

 
            By never letting them out of your sight. Lol.

            by making sure your man is drained every time he leaves the house!!!!

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