Jul 6, 2013

Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship

Sherry Argov ~ Why Men Love Bitches


 “Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.”
 
“Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.”
 
“When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that’s when he won’t want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy.”
 
“Relationship Principle 10
You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn't respect your opinion, he won't respect you.”
 
“Relationship Principle 1
In romance, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.”
 
“Relationship Principle 11
It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.”
 
“There's nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or struggle a little bit to get.”
 
“Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.”
 
“With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most.”
 
“Relationship Principle 3
He doesn't marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.”
 
“When a man likes you, he will be interested in finding out what you like. If he makes you happy, he feels more secure. Everything men do is intended to impress women.”
 
“Men are intrigued by anything they do not completely control.”
 
“Sophia Loren said, "Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.”
 
“Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don’t get what you want.”
 
“When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.”
 
“Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.”
 
“That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happiness, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.”
 
“He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”
 
“Many people lack the basic equipment to be in a relationship and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can't take a skunk and dip it in perfume and hope it becomes a puppy. Eventually, the perfume will wear off and you'll still have a skunk on your hands.”
 
“Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.”
 
“Relationship Principle 5
Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.”
 
“Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.”
 
“When you are happy, you are sexy”
 
“Relationship Principle 9
Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turned on by a woman who cares about her own pleasure as well.”
 
“Once you start laughing, you start healing.”
 
“The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.”
 
“Relationship Principle 6
Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.”
 
“You always want what you can’t have.”
 
“Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is "no contact".”
 
“As soon as a man has his guard up. he will not fall in love or get attached the only way he'll get attached is if you lower his guard first.”
 
“Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him.”
 
“Success in love isn't about looks, it's about attitude.”
 
“The most attractive quality of all is dignity.”
 
“The bitch does not stop moving to her own rhythm. This, in and of itself, prevents her from becoming off-balance like a nice girl who abandons her routine.”
 
“When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it's the only kind of relationship worth having.”
 
“Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves”
 
“If someone else doesn't like your confidence, that's their problem.
Why? You always come before they do, that's why.”
 
“Men are selfish and don't think about anything else but them self." pg. 45”
 
“When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you don’t nag, he deals with the problem.”
 
“Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't.”
 
“A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone.”
 
“Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turned on by a woman who cares about her own pleasures as well.”
 
“When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there.”
 
“It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.”
 
“Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.”
 
“You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn’t respect your opinion, he won't respect you.”
 
“Men control the world, but women control the men.”
 
“Because of his hormones, he only has three emotions: crabby, hungry, horny.”
 
“You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face”
 
“If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.”
 
“The bitch is an empowered woman who derives tremendous strength from the ability to be an independent thinker, particularly in a world that still teaches women how to be self-abnegating. This woman doesn't live someone else's standards, only her own.”
 
“Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn't work.”
 
“UncondiTional love is a beauTiful Thing. JusT be sure To
give iT after your conditions have been meT :P”
 
“If you can't convince 'em, confuse 'em.”
 
“For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a man roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.”
 
“It's that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.”

“If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that.”
 
“When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.”
 
“When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless”
 
“If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.”
 
 “You always want what you can’t have”
 
“And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it.”
 
“This is a touch game. There are times when you've got to play hurt when you've got to block out the pain.”

“If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point.”

 “Standing up for yourself doesn't always involve verbal confrontation. Sometimes it's about not wasting energy on people who are negative.”
 
“When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too.”
 
“Men can shift gears from romantic to practical - and so can the bitch.”
 
“Whether it’s your taste in clothing, your needs in a relationship, or what you do for a living—don’t let anyone else be at the controls. Define yourself.”
 
“Throughout life, people will try to shake your faith in yourself. When this happens, remind yourself that the only way they can succeed is if you allow it. When you walk down the street of life, always hold your head high and keep walking. Don't ever let anyone shake your faith in yourself, because that's really all that you have.”

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